© 2003 - 2008. All Rights Reserved.
The Date Safe Project, LLC
Toll-Free: (800) 329-9390
E-mail:   Click here

  Speaker, Activist, & Author

BIO SHOW IDEAS QUESTIONS REVIEWS DOWNLOADS SCHEDULE BLOG CONTACT

SPEAKER & ACTIVIST
                                -- His Personal Story

Why does Mike Domitrz have such an intense passion and drive to dramatically change society's approach to healthy dating and to create a better understanding of how "consent" is obtained in intimacy?

In 1989, he received a phone call that his sister had been raped. As he held the phone tightly to his ears, he simply could not believe what he was hearing.  For two years, he struggled to deal with the rape and the effect it had on his life -- both as the brother of a rape victim and as a man. During this time, Mike was in college and he discovered that no one was addressing one of the most serious causes of sexual assault -- a lack of having consent.   The average person was NOT relating to the importance of needing to have permission before engaging in an intimate act with another person. Most individuals did not even realize that their current dating practices were based on standards of disrespect.  Mike decided to make a difference.

As he researched the issue of sexual assault and dating, he constantly heard people complaining that most sexual assault seminars and experts were boring and depressing. Parents were saying, "My child would never do that", but their kids were doing "that" and worse. Mike knew what needed to be done.

He started a "one person show" that used humor in a powerful and effective manner ~ humor that would open people's minds. Once people were laughing, they were much more likely to listen. With everyone's attention glued to the program, Mike then shows the devastation and trauma caused by sexual assault. The name of Mike's program became "Can I Kiss You?" and has gone onto to be presented in schools and at conferences throughout the United States. He has created a truly interactive and engaging program that inspires change in the lives of each audience member.

While originally designing and producing "Can I Kiss You?", Mike compiled extensive research from a diverse group of resources to insure his message was accurate, honest, and delivering a healthy message. Through his website, his book, and his speaking appearances, he continues to hear from teenagers, parents, singles, educators, sexual assault survivors, professionals, and media from around the world. In fact, sexual assault survivors praise Mike for teaching people of all ages how to "Open the Door" to loved ones so that children and family members are more likely to speak out when sexually assaulted.

Unlike most experts who's information is based solely on research, Mike stays in-touch with today's students, singles, and parents. By doing so, he has a clearer and more up-to-date understanding of what everyone is experiencing in the current dating world.

Awards & Recognitions
In 1992, Domitrz was recognized as One of the Top 10 Collegiate Entrepreneurs in the USA for the creation of his speaking programs on one of society's most sensitive issues--sexual assault and dating. In 1996 was recognized as of One of the Outstanding Young Men in America. In 2003, Domitrz's new book, May I Kiss You? A Candid Look at Dating, Communication, Respect, & Sexual Assault Awareness, was published and endorsed by educational organizations and professionals throughout the United States. In 2005, Domitrz produced and edited the critically-acclaimed book Voices of Courage: Inspiration from Survivors of Sexual Assault. His greatest reward is his family of four sons and his wonderful wife.

BACK TO TOP

PRONOUNCE "DOMITRZ"

Imagine you are saying "Amish" as in the Amish culture and put a "D" in front of "Amish."

THE AUTHOR -- His Books & Writings

As Mike was speaking throughout the country, he was continually receiving requests from students, educators, and parents to create educational products which share the powerful lessons he reveals in his "Can I Kiss You?" program.  People wanted a resource that was just like his presentations -- interactive, humorous, challenging, emotionally honest, and filled with skill building activities. 

Help! My Teen is Dating. Real Solutions to Tough Conversations is Mike's latest resource for families and is being hailed as a MUST HAVE for parents of all teenagers.  You get over 80 minutes of interactive, funny, engaging, and powerful DVD video footage filled with precise tools to help your children face the confusing and frustrating times of dating and relationships!  To learn more, visit: www.helpmyteenisdating.com.

In 2003, Mike Domitrz wrote the critically-acclaimed book on healthy dating and sexual assault awareness titled May I Kiss You?.  This incredible book  takes May I Kiss You?  A Candid Look at Dating, Communication, Respect, & Sexual Assault Awarenessan in-depth look at the realities of dating and intimacy. Mike's candid advice, real-life scenarios, and over 20 interactive exercises revolutionize teenagers' and adults' approach to dating -- while building respect and heightening awareness of sexual misconduct and assault. Students, parents, educators, and professionals are experiencing incredible success with this innovative, respectful, and fun approach to dating.  To learn more, visit www.mayikissyou.com.

While writing his first book, he was already planning for his second.  From the inspiration of his own sister and the many survivors he had met over the years, Mike  wanted to write a book that would demonstrate the incredible strength and courage sexual assault survivors display on a daily basis.  In 2005, he brought twelve survivors of sexual assault together from around the country to share their personal journey to healing and recovery in the critically-acclaimed book Voices of Courage.  To learn more, go online to www.voicesofcourage.com.

You can learn much more about Mike's books and all his educational products (CDs, T-shirts, buttons, and posters) in the "Books & Products" section of this website.

Stay Up-To-Date
Join reporters, producers, and media professionals who are staying up-to-date with Mike Domitrz and his latest writings by visiting his internet Blog (click here) each week and by receiving his complimentary newsletter, Let's Talk (click here).  Readers love Mike's honesty and his engaging style of writing.  Plus, it makes for great quotes and content to be used in articles and feature reports.  Don't miss out!  Sign-up today!

Click here to read entire letter from Laura Bush, First Lady of the United States of AmericaLaura Bush, First Lady

"Thank you also for writing for children and providing a positive framework of behavior for our youth. With best wishes"

Click here to read entire letter.

 

Privacy Statement                                                                                                                                         Design by Bauweb.Net Studio 2005